Indomitable Nellie Downes was born in Cape Town on 6 August 1908. Her father Herbert Major Downes was an Australian who came to South Africa to fight the Boer War. At Aberdeen he met Anna Joubert who was an only child. Because of this, he promised her parents that he would not take her away from them back to Australia and made his home in South Africa.
They had 5 children before he went off to the 1st World War in 1914. He joined a British contingency but as an officer, when it was recognised that he was shell-shocked early on, he was sent to a hospital in Malta and saw out the rest of the war there.
After the war was over, he was involved in the ‘clean-up’ operations. Sadly not long after he returned to his South African family, Herbert committed suicide. He had kept journals all his life and Lilith his grand-daughter inherited them and has them to this day.
A wealthy brother in Australia who died a short while after him, fortuitously left all his money to Nellie’s mother which saved the family from destitution and enabled all the children to get the educations they wanted.
Nellie Downes aspired to a medical degree and qualified as an anaesthetist. She met her first husband, Cyril Emslie whilst on a trip to America with the National Union of Students of South Africa. He was studying engineering at Natal University. They got married in 1933 whilst Nellie was working at the department of Anatomy at UCT.
By the time they had their twin girls Lilith and Joan in 1936, Nellie was working at the Peninsula Maternity Home in District 6 and so the girls were actually born in District 6.
When Cyril was appointed Chief Mechanical Engineer of the SA Railways' main workshops situated in Kimberley, the whole family moved there. The girls were just starting primary school.
Another child, Robin was born in 1940 before Cyril went off to join the 2nd World War.
Nellie meanwhile, was the resident Anesthetist at the Kimberley hospital. The hospital's staff of doctors was reduced from 20 to 3 as many responded to the call of duty. They were busy years for Nellie. Not long after he returned in 1945, Cyril and Nellie got divorced.
She was a woman born before her time, a strong-minded forceful character who preferred men’s company to women’s. An avid reader, she also loved to travel. In Kimberley, she took it into her head to learn to fly and in due course earned her pilot’s license to fly small planes.
In 1946 Dr Nellie Downes married Ivon Euston-Brown, a dentist who had his own practice in Kimberley. He brought to the marriage 2 children of his own, Michael and Peter. They were both slightly older than Nellie’s children, but they quickly gelled as a family.
In the early 1950’s the family came to holiday in Sedgefield for the first time. They liked it so much they bought 3 plots along Kingfisher Drive, nothing more than a sandy dirt track then.
Today the road has changed so these plots lie mostly on Suikerbekkie Street down to the corner where the road meets Kingfisher Drive.
They were known as "The Corner House”, the “The Corner Cottages” and the masonettes, “Corner Ways”.
In 1953 as her children, Lilith, Joan and Peter began their studies at UCT, Nellie and Ivon moved to Sedgefield. Nellie returned to her own career which she was passionate about and opened a practice as an anaesthetist in George. She also serviced Mossel Bay and Knynsa.
Ivon became Chairman of the Plot Holders Association. A shrewd businesswoman, Dr Nellie Downes was part of a group of people who formed a company to buy shares in a parcel of land that became known as Meedingsride. As stands were sold off it proved to be a very lucrative investment.
Nellie had also bought other land as an investment around the time they had bought their first stands.
Towards the end of the 70’s some of their properties were gradually sold off.
Corner Ways has since been demolished and Fish Eagle Close, a suite of apartments built in 2008, has replaced them.
Kingfisher Corner and The Other Corner built in 1967 were 2 houses built on one stand on the corner of Kingfisher Drive and Kanarie Lane.
The twins, Lilith and Joan were to inherit these houses overlooking the Swartvlei Estuary with magnificent views of Sedgefield and of the sea all the way to Gerickes Point.
The children were all out the house when, in 1968, Ivon had a stroke. Nellie nursed him until he died in 1969. It always helped Nellie to keep busy and she liked to be useful. She cultivated many interests and enjoyed civic affairs.
She was a keen gardener and started the Garden Club in Sedgefield planting shrubs in the "middle mannetjie" of the N2 and the Hibiscus outside the Town Hall.
Full of life and very social Nellie actively supported the formation of Sedgefield Players in 1970, instigated by John and Mary Scorer both established and talented actors. They created a small theatre group that presented a number of one-act plays that were a great success not only in Sedgefield but also in George and Knysna.
Contributing to many local community activities, when Sedgefield became a fully-fledged Town Council, Dr Nellie Downes was the town's first Mayor in 1975.
However, Nellie was home alone so after her stint as Mayor, and as a change of scenery was her solace, she decided to fly off to explore new destinations.
She spent 3 months working on a Kibbutz before moving to Paris where she studied French at the Sorbonne for 3 years. In-between, she back-packed around Europe and made a memorable visit to Alaska where she slept in a tent because she was horrified by the price of hotels!
On a visit to England she met Tom Wallcot Stephens whom she married in 1980. It turned out that he had been born in Laingsberg South Africa but had gone to the UK for schooling at the age of 6.
When they returned to South Africa, she found work at Umtata Hospital where Tom was the resident chest surgeon. They worked together for some years at Umtata and in Swaziland before returning to Sedgefield where they built the house, Tom’s Corner.
Once retired from medical practice they spent part of the year at “The Spinney” Tom’s English home, north of London and the summer months in Sedgefield. Together they back-packed to other places en route between these two homes.
1991 marked a sad event. It was on the occasion of the river mouth being opened. Nellie and Tom were walking next to the lagoon and Tom decided to get in and surge with the outward flow of water to the river mouth.
Nellie continued walking to the mouth, where she found people standing around her husband who had been pulled from the river and was lying on the ground. At 90 years of age, he had drowned.
At 83 years old, Nellie had outlived 3 husbands and her zest for life was as yet, undiminished.
Inactivity irritated her so her love for travelling took her off again and she went to “take a look at acupuncture” and see the Great Wall of China.
Dr Nellie Downes became interested in chronic liver disease and found a niche in the MRC/UCT Liver Research Centre in Cape Town.
In 1994 she attended a medical congress in Cairo, Egypt on behalf of the Research Centre and in her true adventurous style, she made time to experience a camel ride.
On her return, only a few weeks later she contracted a lung infection that resulted in pneumonia and she passed away on 15 April 1994 just a few months short of her 86th birthday.
Thanks to Lilith Seals for this story and photos.
SA Medical Journal Vol 85 No. 3 March 1995.
Notes on Sedgefield - Ensle Syphus.